There are people that really really want to be in a romantic relationship. Sometimes it seems that they try it with everyone that pops in..
Maybe because they don't want to be alone anymore, or their friends are all in relationships, or they are getting old and want to have a baby, before it's too late..
But, how those people really know they want the other person, if they don't' even really know the other one, the personality?
They don't even know if they like them, if they are compatible.
How you know you want him/her if you don't know him/her. You don't' know his/her personality.
Based on what, you want to be in a relationship with that person? Exterior? Expectations? Your hopes and dreams?
It comes across desperate..
Maybe because they don't want to be alone anymore, or their friends are all in relationships, or they are getting old and want to have a baby, before it's too late..
But, how those people really know they want the other person, if they don't' even really know the other one, the personality?
They don't even know if they like them, if they are compatible.
How you know you want him/her if you don't know him/her. You don't' know his/her personality.
Based on what, you want to be in a relationship with that person? Exterior? Expectations? Your hopes and dreams?
It comes across desperate..
Get to know him/her to realise if you like him/her and if you are compatible.
One of the common mistakes is showing too much interest too early. It
can make you look desperate. This is a huge problem
as people want a confident person who provides a bit of a challenge and
makes them earn that kind of attention.
As the conversation progresses and she/he proves to have a great personality, show a bit more interest
There’s nothing less attractive than seeking for the other's approval.
So to get someone interested in you, focus on having a satisfying life outside of that person. Peruse the activities and hobbies you love. Eat well and exercise, as that will boost your mood and help you feel good in your body. The more you can fill up on things that make you love life and feel good about yourself, the easier it’s going to be for you to naturally attract someone.
There’s nothing less attractive than seeking for the other's approval.
So to get someone interested in you, focus on having a satisfying life outside of that person. Peruse the activities and hobbies you love. Eat well and exercise, as that will boost your mood and help you feel good in your body. The more you can fill up on things that make you love life and feel good about yourself, the easier it’s going to be for you to naturally attract someone.
Are you living a relationship of one?
Check for signs, don't create an emotional bond that doesn't exist:
- Listens to you
- Wants to stay longer
- Wants to see you again - makes plans
- Stays in touch with you
- Feels jealousy
- Puts in the effort to help you out
- Is available
- Brings you around his/her friends
- Compromises
- Asks for your advice
- Tries to please you
