Previously, it was "Love others", today is "Love yourself".
What was supposed to be understood as: you don't have to be perfect, love you as you are! Don't be so hard on you, learn with your mistakes! Don't accept others mistreat you! Nobody is better than you! Accept yourself! You are important too!
What was supposed to be something motivational to help people to feel better about themselves, with their struggles, with their bodies, to accept themselves is being interpreted egocentrically as: You come first! What matters is what you feel! Do only what makes you happy! Pamper yourself! Buy whatever makes you happy! Work your body to be at your best! You are the most important!
The "Love yourself" became take care of yourself, of your appearance, especially for women. Pampering themselves with clothes, tons of makeup, hairstyles, gym, beauty treatments, cosmetic surgeries, etc.
Whatever it takes for you to feel good in your own skin! So you can love yourself!
I believe this it the opposite of "love yourself", this is " I need to change myself so I can love myself". " I need to mask myself to love myself".
"Love yourself" is to accept yourself as you are! You don't need to look "perfect" to love yourself!
Nobody is perfect!
Do you really believe you need to look "perfect" to be loved?
Do you really believe that low self-esteem is worked on the outside?
Do you really believe that you just look beautiful with make up and clothes?
If so, you don't believe you are beautiful. The makeup and clothes are the ones that are beautiful.
You don't love yourself. You love the makeup and clothing you are wearing!
You love the illusion of yourself made by the makeup.
If you have reasons to believe that people around you think you are beautiful only in make up and trendy clothes.
These people don't love you!
They just love the makeup and clothes you wear.
Get rid of those people! They are more toxic than the chemicals of the beauty products you are wearing. They are poisoning you, too!
The only people that really love you, are the beauty industries, cause all the money you are giving them!
Today, men want to look muscular, like the heroes of the action movies and women slim, with large breasts and big bottom, like some famous singers or porn movies stars.
They don't want to admire these characters anymore. They want to be the ones to be admired!
The muscles in men are synonymous of masculinity and strength. The protection that females are, intrinsically, looking for in a male, to start a family.
But when these muscles are not natural, they are no more than unhealthy and deformed bodies.
In women, large breast and big button symbolizes femininity and fertility. But, being slim and having large breast and big bottom is not something easy to achieve, considering that breast and bottom are fat and yet you need to be slim..So silicone and cosmetic surgery are the easier way to go..
The laws of attraction are based in procreation, continuation of species.. that's the reason why every couple, normally, have children.
It's a primitive need of all the species.
It's the nature of all the animals to look healthy, strong and attractive to be chosen for procreation. To ensure the continuation of the species.
Love is surely connected with procreation, but is more than attraction.
When your concern is just the looks, the message you are sending to the opposite sex is procreation. And when you are showing lots of skin... the message is much stronger.
In reality, what you see are men on an hormonal pills diet and women walking with pieces of plastic inside their bodies to shape the desired figure.. It is no more than an illusion.
Like I said before, Nobody is perfect!
Deformed men and women carrying pieces of silicone.. such a beautiful couple! Very attractive, indeed. Don't you think so?
They must love themselves very much and even more each other!!
Don't fool yourself!
Like mentioned before, nobody is perfect! Not even, the models, that supposedly are defining the beauty standards.
There's lots of make up work, lights, photoshop..These women are not even real.. they have acne, cellulite, stretch marks.. just like you.
You cannot compete with make up artists, professional photographers and photoshop. What you see is not real!
It is truth that beauty can make it easier to find love, but if the package content doesn't correspond to the expectations of the other, hardly it will go further than the initial attraction, the sexual passion..
That's why you should truly " Love yourself".
Work your inside, make some self-discovery, eat good, exercise your body to keep it healthy and embrace your beauty.
...and love will naturally come to you!
