Get to know someone in 50 questions

After knowing the answers to this questions, you'll know the person that is with you:

1. What is your perfect job? And the worst?
2. Are you usually earlier or late?
3. If you could wake up in other's body, who would you pick?
4. What age you would you like to have permanently?
5. What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?
6. What annoys you the most? 
7. What is the most interesting place you have been?
8. What is the best way to start the day?
9. What is the city/place where you would like to live in?
10. Why did you decide to do the work you are doing now?
11. What one thing you want, but cannot afford yet?
12. What are you most likely to became famous for?
13. What question would you most like to know the answer to?
14. What was the best compliment you received?
15. Who inspires you?
16. What would you never do again?
17. What do you spend the most time thinking of?
18. What is your favourite smell?
19. If you had to change your name, what name would it be?
20. What do you want to be remembered for?
21. What is the best thing you got from your parents?
22. if you life was a book what title would it has?
23. What lie do you tell most often?
24. What gives your life meaning?
25. What was the biggest mistake in History?
26. What will you never spend money on?
27. Who would be the worst celebrity to have dinner with?and the best?
28. What do you know way to much?
29. What is the worst thing you ever tasted?
30. What was the worst injury you got?
31. Would you travel to a foreign country all by yourself?
32. What would you change in your body?
33. What is the best and worst thing about being male/female?
34. What place would like to visit?
35. What personality trait you appreciate more and less in a person?
36. what would wish to know when you were young?
37. What's your favourite song?
38. What's your favourite quote?
39. What is your most terrible and  most happy memory?
40. Do you believe in God?
41. What tv show or film would you recommend?
42. How often do you do you play sports?
43. What's your favourite drink?
44. What is the best day on the calendar?
45. What is your favourite food?
46. Are you still friends with anyone from your hometown?
47. Calling or texting?
48. What have you learned about yourself from the past relationships?
49. Do you like art?
50. What 3 wishes would you make?

Love and Dating

Romantic, relaxing, funny or radical - the important is to enjoy, to  share experiences and get to know more each other.

Dates ideas

Boat trip

Make a picnic

Beach walk

Follow a bike trail

Go camping

Cook diner

Nature walk

Go to a amusement park

Dance classes

Ice skating

Catch a theatre play

Make fondue

Spa Couples massage

Board game night

Rock climbing

Go to a live stand-up comedy show

Water park

Go to outdoor concert

Watch and outdoor film

Visit an art gallery or museum

Go to a zoo or aquarium

Play snooker or darts

Go horse riding

Go bowling

Dinner in the dark experience

Laugh yoga session

Deeper Wounds - Love and '"Family"

"The family's wounds take longer to heal.

The wounds originated by the closest family creates traumas, profound affection needs and a void too hard to fill.

The impact of an absent father, a toxic mother, an aggressive language - shouting and a child raising with no affection or sense of protection, causes more than the classical low self-esteem or fears hard to overcome.

The difficulty of overcoming   is in the brain that was damage very young. The stress experienced in very tender ages, changes the structure of the brain, as well the structures associated with emotions. Causing a deeper vulnerability, and an emotional abandonment, responsible for a higher risk of suffering emotional disorders.

The family is our first contact with the social world, if our basic needs are not fulfilled it can influence our whole lifetime.

Why is so hard to heal the wounds suffered in the begging of our life? 

Our society's culture tells us that the family circle is a fundamental pillar - However this not always happens.

The last place someone thinks that is going to get hurt, betrayed, disappointed or even abandoned is, without a doubt,  inside their own family. However, that happens more frequently than we can imagine. Is the duty and obligation of these figures of reference to provide us the best, trust, encouragement, positivity, love and safety. Sometimes they fail intentionally or unintentionally. 

For a child, a teenager or even an adult, experiencing this kind of betrayal or this kind of disappointment in their own family possibly develops a trauma to which we would never be prepared.

The betrayal or lack of affection in the family is more painful than a simple betrayal between friends or work colleagues. It's an attack to our identity and roots.

Family's wounds are inherited to the following generations.

A family is more than a genealogical tree, more than sharing the same genetic code and surnames.

Families share stories and emotional legacies. Often traumatic pasts are inherited from generation to generation in many ways."

Love and Desesperation

There are people that really really want to be in a romantic relationship. Sometimes it seems that they try it with everyone that pops in..

Maybe because they don't want to be alone anymore, or their friends are all in relationships, or they are getting old and want to have a baby, before it's too late.. 

But, how those people really know they want the other person, if they don't' even really know the other one, the personality?

They don't even know if they like them, if they are compatible.

How you know you want him/her if you don't know him/her. You don't' know his/her personality.

Based on what, you want to be in a relationship with that person? Exterior? Expectations? Your hopes and dreams?

It comes across desperate..

Get to know him/her to realise if you like him/her and if you are compatible. 

One of the common mistakes is showing too much interest too early.   It can make you look desperate.  This is a huge problem as people want a confident person who provides a bit of a challenge and makes them earn that kind of attention.

 As the conversation progresses and she/he  proves to have a great personality, show a bit more interest

 There’s nothing less attractive  than seeking for the other's approval.

So to get someone interested in you, focus on having a satisfying life outside of that person. Peruse the activities and hobbies you love. Eat well and exercise, as that will boost your mood and help you feel good in your body. The more you can fill up on things that make you love life and feel good about yourself, the easier it’s going to be for you to naturally attract someone. 

Are you living a relationship of one? 

Check for signs, don't create an emotional bond that doesn't exist:

• Listens to you
• Wants to stay longer
• Wants to see you again - makes plans
• Stays in touch with you
• Feels jealousy
• Puts in the effort to help you out
• Is available
• Brings you around his/her friends
• Compromises
• Asks for your advice
• Tries to please you